• Essentials for Babies From Birth to 4 Months

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely DayNow that Calvin has passed the 4 month mark, I can look back and see that I had definite favorites that were absolute essentials for me during that early time. And since this is my second time with a newborn I feel like I really got the hang of what was and wasn’t essential this go around (like, you really don’t need that wipes warmer!) Here are my top 10 things for life with a baby, 0-4 months edition. The headings are linked in case you want to buy any of these for yourself and your babes.

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    The Ollie World Swaddle

    Calvin has slept through the night since he was about two months old all on his own. I didn’t have to sleep train him or anything. This is a miracle. I am unbelievably lucky. I believe that aside from the luck of just having a good sleeper, the swaddle we use has helped a great deal as well. I got sent a lot of baby stuff when I announced I was pregnant and when Calvin was born, and The Ollie World Swaddle was one of those things. I already had a bunch of swaddle blankets and other swaddles, so I didn’t really pay attention to it. Just another swaddle, right? So so wrong. Calvin busted out of swaddle blankets with lightning speed and the SwaddleMe and similar swaddles lasted about 30 minutes on him. He is very strong and wiggly, so I pulled out the Ollie World Swaddle and have never looked back. It’s like it is sprinkled with magic sleep dust. It has super strong velcro, is incredibly simple to put on him, and is the only swaddle he doesn’t bust out of. He has wiggled it down past his shoulders a few times but that was more due to my poor application (or rather my husband’s…). And it also comes with its own laundry bag so the velcro doesn’t stick to the rest of your laundry.

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    I am pretty much obsessed and credit it for helping Calvin sleep through the night at such a young age. It might not work for every baby (they are all different in their sleep abilities and preferences) but it works amazingly well for us. In fact, Calvin has started showing signs of rolling, so I pre-emptively tried taking his arms out of the swaddle and tried another product that doesn’t allow rolling but helps with the startle reflex. Both were a disaster, as Calvin loves his swaddle so much he protested my taking it away by waking up a bunch of times during the night. So, back in the Ollie swaddle he went, and back to sleeping through the night he did 🙂

    Solly Baby Wrap

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    This is another item that I used SO much from 0-2 months and still use at 4 months, though less frequently. But that is mostly because Calvin has such strong neck control that he wants to look around and was always flinging his head around to look around in the wrap and seemed to relax more in the Ergo starting around 4 months old. I think many babies would use it for longer. And even if you only use it during the first two months, the number of times that you’ll use it in that range and the things you can do while wearing baby in the wrap make it worth the purchase to me. And out of all of the wraps I have tried, the Solly is my favorite for many reasons.

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely DayYou can read a full review and comparison to some other products, plus some wrapping tips here if you are interested in a more in-depth review.

    Puj Baby Tub

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    This is another product I’m so glad showed up in the mail. I had a bath seat that we used with my oldest son and I was not looking for a new tub. But let me tell you, this thing is a gem! It’s perfect for small spaces, apartment dwellers, city folk, and the like, due to its small and easy to store design, but it also makes bathing a brand new baby super easy. Calvin never, let me repeat, NEVER cried getting a bath in this tub. Not once. And although we use his bath seat more now that he is 4 months old (mostly to bathe him with our oldest in the regular bath tub at the same time) when I just want to give him a quick bath we still go to the Puj tub.

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    It also grows well with your infant, as you can see in the pictures above of Calvin at about 3 weeks old and 3 months old. Plus, they look like such cute little chubby bunnies in that thing. I also want to mention that the Puj hug towel is the softest towel I’ve ever felt in my life and it has a genius little design element that allows you to have it wrap around your neck so you can get baby out of the tub and straight into the towel. Not an “essential” like a good tub, but I do love it. They make a big version that I’d love to get for Charlie as well.

    Fisher Price Rock n Play

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    I got the Fisher Price Rock n Play with my first baby, and he napped in it until almost 6 months old and slept in it some nights too. It keeps baby slightly inclined, which helps with reflux issues (which Charlie had) and gives them a more snuggly feeling than laying flat in the crib. It also feels safer and more secure to me than letting them sleep all night (if they sleep all night) in a swing, bouncy seat, mamaRoo, etc.

    When Calvin was born I pulled out the trusty Rock n Play again, and he slept in it at night for his first two months, until we transitioned him to his crib. He napped in it most of the time as well, but got a little too long and squirmy, so we’ve put it away. But during those first 3-4 months, this thing is worth its weight in gold. Ours is kind of ugly (they make them in cuter prints now) so I always have it covered with a cute blanket like in the photo above, but that’s Calvin just sleeping away in it. I also like that it closes to fold up and store, is easily portable from room to room, and can rock if you want it to but works great as a stationary sleeping spot as well.

    UPPAbaby Vista Travel System

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    We originally got our UPPAbaby Vista when I was pregnant with Charlie. I have repeatedly vocalized that it is the best baby-related purchase we ever made (maybe even non-baby related purchase!) I love it so so much. When I got pregnant with Calvin I debated getting a double stroller but due to my love for our Vista and Charlie’s age, I decided that the add-on accessories like the Rumbleseat and Piggyback board would work for us. And they have. Charlie is already too big for the Rumbleseat (it has a 35 lb max and he’s super tall) but he is obsessed with riding his “skateboard” (the piggyback board).

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    I also super love the UPPAbaby Mesa infant car seat, which clicks in easily to the Vista. It’s snuggly, highly rated for safety, isn’t ugly (I just can’t deal with the ugly colors and styles of most car seats, so if there is a super safe and high quality option out there that isn’t ugly, it wins my heart!) Also, it is the easiest car seat to install, maybe ever. The base has a level that shows it is installed properly and buttons that you can press to tighten and release the straps that secure it to your car clips. It takes less than 10 seconds, making it easy to move it from one car to another or remove it if you need room in your car for adults or hauling stuff.

    I did a full review of the UPPAbaby travel system here, if you want to read more.

    4Moms mamaRoo and rockaRoo

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    I’ve had the opportunity to use both the mamaRoo and the rockaRoo with Calvin and am a big fan of both of them. I had the mamaRoo first, and Calvin seemed to like it and slept well in it during the first few weeks of his life. But then I was also able to try the rockaRoo, and he loved it. He seems to prefer the swing motion of it to the bouncing motion of the mamaRoo, so I keep the rockaRoo in our living room for a bit of hands-free time when he isn’t napping (or help getting him to nap), and I keep the mamaRoo in the nursery for when I need a little help in there. And the mamaRoo’s white noise feature is what I use for white noise in his nursery when he is sleeping, whether he’s in the mamaRoo or not.

    So, if you are wondering which you should get, I can’t really tell you since each baby is different. Both are great products, and Calvin likes each one. But I will say that the rockaRoo is smaller and replaces a bulkier swing, and I haven’t yet heard of a baby who doesn’t like it. And for the lower price point, I highly recommend it. Both devices are life savers for some lounge time for Calvin and hands-free time for me, and they both give me a lot more time than his play mat, Baby Bjorn bouncer, Bumbo seat, exersaucer, etc.

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    I can say that he seemed to love his mamaRoo for his first 6 weeks or so, the rockaRoo from 6 weeks to 4 months, and now seems to be into his mamaRoo again. I think now that he only naps in his crib it’s just about changing it up to keep it interesting for him. And each has a mobile that he loves to make eyes at and talk to.

    My Brest Friend Nursing Pillow

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    Oh man, did I have a time trying to find a good nursing pillow. I tried out quite a few and used the Boppy with my oldest (I didn’t even know there were other options back then) but the My Brest Friend nursing pillow wins the contest hands down, and has been one of my biggest lifesavers during the first 4 months. I’m still using it for every feeding. If you are nursing, don’t even waste your time or money on another nursing pillow. Yeah, the Boppy has way cuter cover options, but this pillow is so good it could be covered in pictures of poo and I would prefer it to the Boppy in the cutest cover ever made. It saved my neck and back and keeps baby level and stable – all of the other pillows were too round and soft and he was rolling all over.

    Hide and Peek Nursing Cover

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    I’m not one of those moms who can nurse in public and not cover up (more power to the ones who can, but I’m just too self-conscious). I also love a good product that does double duty as something else. Hide and Peek Nursing Covers are one of those awesome products – it is a great nursing cover that covers you front and back but allows baby easy access to the boob and you easy viewing of your nursing babe, and it also doubles as the best car seat cover I’ve ever used.

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    It can completely cover your car seat, leaving the handle exposed to carry it, and doesn’t blow around or off. You can also pull it down so baby can see out and it covers their body like a blanket. And it is also a super cute infinity scarf. This is truly a must-have. I actually want to purchase a second one!

    Zutano Booties

    My Favorite Things For Baby 0-4 Months | Oh Lovely Day

    You guys, throw away all of those ugly baby socks that never stay on anyways. I have discovered the best baby booty in the history of baby booties. Aside from the occasional appearance by Calvin’s Freshly Picked Moccs (which I love but he grew out of his crib sized ones and still can’t quite fit into the 1s yet) these are all Calvin wears! They also make great apparel and that super cute fuzzy bear hat in the photo of him in the Solly Wrap. But the booties are absolute must-haves for every baby.

    A few other things I’ve loved for baby but weren’t absolutely essential during this 0-4 month phase were:

    • Dr. Brown’s bottles (Calvin is mostly on the boob but these were all that worked for Charlie and Calvin takes them as well)
    • Baby Brezza Formula Pro (love this but again, I mostly nurse so far)
    • Ergobaby 360 (we’re using this a ton now that he is 4+ months so this will definitely be in the next stage essentials post)
    • Skip Hop play mat (great for tummy time and on back stimulation with toys, but since you can technically do tummy time on a blanket I didn’t deem this an “essential”)
    • Coconut oil – this actually has been essential for us because Cal gets super dry skin (may have a touch of eczema) and any of the store-bought lotions and oils either make him worse, break him out, or don’t moisturize enough. I literally slather coconut oil on him after each bath (and I only bathe him with all-natural soap, like this one from Honest Co.) and it clears right up. When it is particilarly bad, I also apply Honest Co.’s Healing Balm (see below)
    • A homemade diaper rash remedy that I shared here.
    • Honest Co Healing Balm (I wasn’t a huge fan of their diaper rash cream but this balm is the best for butts, dry skin, little scratches from those pesky nails that won’t stay trimmed, etc.)

    This list doesn’t include other clothing items, diapers or wipes (because those are obvious essentials and everyone has their own favorites and preferences – but in case you want to know, we prefer these diapers and these wipes although I also use these diapers during the day but not overnight), or blankets (I’m going to do a post on blankets alone very soon!)

    Hope this is helpful to some of you. Every baby is different and what works for us may not work for you, but these are my tried and true must-haves for babies 0-4 months. What’s something that you could not live without for baby during this age?


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    1. Posted Jan 5 at 9:16 pm | Permalink

      Thank for sharing your favorites! Just ordered the Zutano booties for my little guy and the nursing cover for myself. I have the rock n play and solly baby wrap and I love both! Can you please share where you got the blanket with the arrows when he is in the rock n play?

    2. taylor dougherty
      Posted Jan 7 at 10:07 am | Permalink

      Love this giveway! Great products

    3. Cassandra Eastman
      Posted Jan 7 at 4:21 pm | Permalink

      I love your list of favorites! I happen to have the Ollie Swaddle so I’m super excited to know it worked well for you, I hope when our little guy arrives he likes it as much as yours did! The Solly Baby Wrap was one I knew I had to have for our little guy as well, I can’t wait to use it! Thanks again for sharing!!

    4. Posted Jan 8 at 8:34 am | Permalink

      Love this post! I got the nursing covet after seeing your write-up on instagram, but am having trouble getting the hang of it. I find it hard to use my hands since it goes all the way around and not show off the ladies. Am I missing something? Would love your feedback!

      • Posted Jan 8 at 7:37 pm | Permalink

        I put it over one shoulder and under the opposite arm. So if I am nursing on the right side, the cover is going over top of my right arm/shoulder and under my left arm and I use my right hand to nurse and if I need to peek I pull it out with my left to peek at babe and boob. Does that help?

        • Sandy
          Posted Jan 9 at 9:46 am | Permalink

          It does, thank you!!

    5. Michelle
      Posted Jan 12 at 3:17 pm | Permalink

      Love this post. I am pregnant with my first, so I have no experience and love hearing from your experience. I had a question, as I am currently looking into what type of diapers to start purchasing; why do you only use the Honest diapers during the day? Thank you so much for the information!

      • Posted Feb 26 at 9:15 am | Permalink

        Hi Michelle-
        Honest diapers gave my son terrible diaper rash when I used them at night. They work for us when there are frequent changes but if he was sleeping for long stretches and pooped and didn’t wake up – diaper rash 🙁

    6. Angie
      Posted Jun 23 at 4:45 pm | Permalink

      I’m expecting my 2nd soon and found your site looking for a review of the Ollie Wrap, but then saw that you named my ABSOLUTE MUST HAVES as essentials (rock and play and the Vista). So now I’m going to have to look into the Mamaroo and nursing cover as well. Thanks for sharing!

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